Relationship issues - Including emotional distance, lack of connection, and perceived betrayal/abandonment

Relationship struggles are extremely difficult. These can often create the experience of feeling betrayed, even as your partner reports they are feeling the same way.

I work with men and women who are currently in couples therapy and are motivated to do their own work outside of their couples therapy.

These relationship struggles likely started before you ever met your partner. These strategies for surviving that have made you both emotionally distant as well as desire that closeness more than anything deserve to be examined.  

Using EMDR intensives does not magically make your relationship change. But what it can do is help to open up your mind to feelings of hope once more. It can help to release the old thoughts and memories that you don't need at the forefront every time you have a conversation with your partner, or a couples therapy appointment on the calendar. 

A very important piece of this puzzle is for the individual therapist and the couples therapist to be able to connect. This is something that I offer my clients as part of their care. I will reach out to your couples therapist to ensure that our goals are aligned, and to be clear on what pieces need to be worked through in individual work.

It would be an honor to journey with you to help you heal your relationship, and truly heal a deep part of yourself.

Please reach out.